We
all have a different
style when it comes
to our relationship
with money. I'm not talking
about your fears or stories about money. Your fears
are a whole other box
of worms.
When I refer to style, I mean how
you would relate to
money if
you had
never been influenced by another persons style or fears.
Dominant type
of people are really driven to
make money and use it to please themselves.
They like to buy nice cars.
They go after money
and success with intense passion. When
they set a money goal
they know they'll get it. Once they get
that money, they are reaching
for more.
They are generous with money
but do not like
people to take advantage of them. Competition
is fun to them. Dominant
styles think it
is easy to
make money
and can't
understand why
everyone else doesn't think this way, too. They are willing to take
risks and do not hesitate
very long
when making decisions about investments. When they
desire a certain
price on something they will negotiate down. Watch out, they may not
bend. Give them the bottom line
price up front
and you'll save a lot of time and frustration for them and yourself!
Influencing and promoter type of
people are excited to make and
spend money. If the path to the money is not fun, they will take a right hand
turn. When they are in the zone, they will seem to magnetize money in very interesting waysways
that other people would doubt. They don't think before they buy. They see something they
want and they usually go for it, even it breaks the bank. They make a plan but many
times they completely forget about when a bright
shiny object in a store window catches
their eye. Details, details, yuck! Have
you ever heard of the terms
"shop-o-holic and impulsive"?
Steady and supporter type people like to
be slow to
their decisions. They will usually let
their mate make investment decisions if they are a different style. They are very
consistent with their practices and are not thrilled with big risksthey'd rather
be patient and
watch their money grow over time.
Their purchases are
more on the practical side.
Analytical type people are very calculated about what happens with their money. By the time they
choose to do
something, whether it's a purchase, creating a business or an investment, they
have created a very thought out a plan. If the choice seemed like a risk before they
did their research, it is now a safe
bet. They've checked out all the possible down falls of their choice and have a back up plan. Spontaneous with their money? Not! If they are making a purchase, it will last them a long time.
Which style are you? None of these styles is better than
another. Each of them does,
however, have a shadow
side. For instance, an
analytical style might get in so much fear about losing their money that they never make a move or go after a dream.
A promoter style might spend every penny they have with no money in savings. A dominant style may use their money
as manipulative tool. A steady person may get stuck in a
rut and fear change that is to their
benefit. It is important to know
your natural style and
work with it, not against it. It is good to implement some traits from other styles, when you see that
yours is hindering you. But always stick to
your values, no matter what advice you get or read.
Remember that everyone has their
own style and what works for you may not be tolerable for your mate or business partner. This is where blending styles
becomes important. Stay compassionate to other's needs when communicating or taking
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